nathalie with an h’s Confessional

Album de Famille

The following photographs were not taken by me, but by members of my family: my grandfather Bi Papa, my mother, my father, perhaps others… I was not even born when most of these were shot! Every Christmas, when I go back to Belgium, I manage to put a few images in my suitcase without my mom noticing. Hee! Hee!

I love photographs from a distant past. I have been known to dumpster dive to save old photographs some idiot had thrown away and reconstitute whole family albums, families that were not mine but that became mine a little bit. This page however is about my clan, my peeps.  I will try to add some more as I steal them…

les-cheveux-de-mammy1My mom in the forties

mammy-avant-daller-monterMy mom dressing up to go riding

bi-et-mamourMy grand-parents at a costume party

mammy-et-cacoMy mom and uncle Caco mimicking the painting at a party

caco-marchand-de-tapis1My uncle Caco disguised as a rug seller

mammyMy hot mom!

jean-et-cacoMy uncle Caco and My uncle Jean dressed up as les Dupont Dupont from Tintin

1960-les-bullesA party in 1960 – they all look shnokered! Bad mom, baaaad!

mariage-de-nanouNanou’s wedding

les-tantes-bi-et-mamourNanou, Tita, Bi Papa and Mamour

caco-paraMy uncle Caco (on the left) coming home for a break from the paras

mamourMy grandmother Mamour (Valentine AKA Poucette)

mammy-a-la-plageMy mom at the beach

my-crazy-aunts1My aunts Tita (Valentina) and Nanou showing legs

odile-endormieMy sister asleep in my mom’s car

odile-fait-le-menageMy sister (on the right) playing housemaid. She must have used up all her cleaning skills back then!

mammy-odile-crackMy mom, my sister, and Crack being boated around

bipapa-au-japonMy granddad used to go to Japan on business quite often

mamour-a-la-plageMamour on the beach, wearing high heels

mammy-et-odileMy mom and sister in Los Angeles

vilie-et-nathalieOnly one year separated my cousin and I but she was definitely the boss of me.

les-couettes-de-vilieMy cousin Vilie, jealous of my pigtails, insisted on having the same hairdo

touni-a-la-plage1Me, buried in the sand in Ostende

nathalie-en-poupeeI had a golden childhood but I was a sad child

Now on my dad’s side, I had to wait until after his death to obtain childhood photographs. See, my father was a strange bird. He told us that basically in the United States, he had a brother called Aloysius to whom he was not speaking anymore and that everybody else was dead. After his passing, my brother put a post about my dad on a genealogical site. A year later, he got contacted by a 22 year old guy from Chicago. He was our second cousin, Ryan. I got in touch with the new family and finally discovered my dad’s past (that’s another epic, a very sad one too.) Anyway, my dad had lied on all points. His brother was not called Aloysus (duh!), and his mom had lived until 1988.

gertrude-date-unknownMy dad’s mom, circa 1914 perhaps

the-wedding-of-gertrude-and-sam1My grand parents at their wedding

dad-probably-in-19211The only baby pic of my dad, in 1921 I believe

the-uncle-i-never-knewMy uncle “Aloysus”

dad-and-his-brother-in-the-twentiesMy dad and his little brother in the twenties in Chicago

That’s all I have from my dad’s past. Not much… but so much better than nothing! It’s a shock to discover aunt, cousins, and highly entertaining second cousins after a whole life of believing everyone is dead!

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  • planetross // March 4, 2009 at 7:14 pm | Reply

    Great family photos!
    I like your Uncles doing Dupont Dupont!

    You look very much like your Mother.

    Thanks! :-) I’m not surprised you like the Dupont Dupont – I think you would have appreciated the uncles who had a very particular sense of humor. There is definitely a lot of my mom in me, but I wish I had inherited her drawing and sculpting skills. Instead I got my father’s photographic skills. I can’t really complain. :-)

  • Bonnie Luria // March 9, 2009 at 7:32 pm | Reply

    Really like this new feature Nathalie.
    What is so compelling about these old treasured photos!? Every time I go to visit my mother, I look through the same boxes and gaze at the same kinds of photos- grandparents on ponies, funny outfits, but I didn’t have aunts and grannies who showed their pins like yours.
    That shot of your mom with Rapunzel hair as a kid has a tinge of you in it.

    Saving these is such a good thing to do.

    Bonnie, you need to steal the photographs! And post them too! It’s a fascinating way to learn about your origins and why you are who you are today. When you dig out the stuff, there is always someone to tell you a story. I had two great aunts who were sisters, spinsters, and lived together. Every Sunday, the priest paid them a visit, and they always left some ose magazines on the table to embarrass him. Ose, at the time, probably meant there was a girl on the cover and she was showing her ankles… :-)

  • forkboy // March 11, 2009 at 4:01 pm | Reply

    I love that you have elected to put these up. Your Uncle Caco appears to have been quite the card.

    forkboy, I have no idea what the card is, but he was in a class of its own! And an INCREDIBLE photographer too. His wife Tita was a hottie! Caco was nuts. :-)

  • Cynical Scribble // March 12, 2009 at 6:28 pm | Reply

    Fantastic pictures you have here. I love seeing old photos.

    In my parents there is a tin photograph of my great grandmother from about 100 years ago. (I need to get that before my brothers or sisters lay claim to it!). It just amazes me everytime I see it. I can never imagine myself in their world but I’d love to step back in time to see what it was like!

  • nathaliewithanh // March 22, 2009 at 3:26 pm | Reply

    Hi Cynical Scribble! Sorry for the long delay in replying but I’ve been out of town. I would suggest you steal that photograph as soon as possible. Possession is nine-tenths of the law.
    You can always scan it later and email it to your scribblings. :-)

  • Pomeroy! // April 13, 2009 at 9:07 pm | Reply

    Excellent photo retrospective. I loved it truly.

    :)

    Thank you! :-)

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